I knew from my trans friends that many people like to ask a
transgender woman their real name, their previous appearance and something about their past life in trans dating. If you've did like this, now it's time to stop asking these questions.
Transgender women want to have a new life with you, they don't want to share their past life and transition process with you, so never force them to do anything they don't like. If you want to date and have a long-term relationship with a transgender woman, please respect their feelings and thoughts. I hope every transgender women can meet their true love.